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Fertility Psychological Evaluations

Compassionate ASRM-compliant screening for egg donors, surrogates, and intended parents

Required Psychological Screening for Third-Party Reproduction

Are you preparing to become an egg donor, gestational carrier, or intended parent using donor eggs or a surrogate? California law and fertility clinics require a comprehensive psychological evaluation to ensure you're emotionally and psychologically prepared for the journey ahead.

As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with specialized training in fertility counseling, I conduct thorough, compassionate evaluations that meet all ASRM (American Society for Reproductive Medicine) guidelines. The evaluation process is designed to support you, not judge you, while ensuring the best possible outcomes for everyone involved in this extraordinary gift of family building.

Whether you're a first-time egg donor, an experienced gestational carrier, or an intended parent beginning your fertility journey, I provide a warm, professional evaluation experience with reports completed within 5-7 business days.

Who Needs a Fertility Psychological Evaluation?

Egg Donors

  • First-time donors
  • Repeat donors
  • Anonymous donors
  • Known donors
  • Directed donation cycles
  • Agency-represented donors

Gestational Carriers

  • Traditional surrogates
  • Gestational carriers
  • First-time carriers
  • Experienced surrogates
  • Independent carriers
  • Agency-represented

Intended Parents

  • Using donor eggs
  • Using gestational carriers
  • LGBTQ+ individuals/couples
  • Single parents by choice
  • Heterosexual couples
  • All family configurations

Why Psychological Screening Matters

Third-party reproduction involves complex emotional, psychological, and relational dynamics. The evaluation ensures that all parties are:

  • Emotionally prepared for the process
  • Free from coercion or undue pressure
  • Psychologically stable and resilient
  • Supported by strong social networks
  • Aware of potential challenges
  • Making informed, autonomous decisions

The Evaluation Process: What to Expect

1. Pre-Evaluation (Before Your Appointment)

You'll receive detailed intake forms covering your personal history, family background, and current life circumstances. You'll also review and sign consent documents and provide relevant medical and mental health history. This typically takes 30-45 minutes to complete.

2. Clinical Interview (90-120 minutes)

The heart of the evaluation is a comprehensive interview conducted in a warm, supportive environment. We'll discuss:

  • Your complete biopsychosocial history
  • Mental health history and current emotional state
  • Motivations for participating in third-party reproduction
  • Understanding of medical, legal, and emotional aspects
  • Family dynamics and support systems
  • Psychological resilience and coping strategies
  • Risk factors and protective factors
  • Preferences regarding relationships with other parties

3. Personality Assessment (PAI)

You'll complete the Personality Assessment Inventory (PAI) online. This standardized test measures emotional stability, personality traits, and psychological resilience. It provides objective data to complement our clinical interview and typically takes 45-60 minutes to complete.

4. Report & Recommendations

Within 5-7 business days, I'll complete a detailed written report summarizing findings and providing clear recommendations to your fertility clinic. The report meets all clinical and legal requirements of ASRM guidelines. If appropriate, we can schedule a brief feedback session to discuss the results.

Typical Timeline

  • Total Process: 2-3 weeks from scheduling to report delivery
  • Intake Forms: 30-45 minutes
  • Clinical Interview: 90-120 minutes (in-person or telehealth)
  • Personality Test: 45-60 minutes (online)
  • Report Completion: 5-7 business days

What the Evaluation Ensures

For Egg Donors

  • Emotional readiness for the donation process and its potential impacts
  • Realistic expectations about the donation experience
  • Absence of coercion or undue pressure from others
  • Appropriate motivations for participating in donation
  • Understanding of the psychological aspects of genetic contribution

For Gestational Carriers

  • Psychological stability to handle the pregnancy journey
  • Strong support system from partner and family
  • Ability to form appropriate attachment and release the baby
  • Clear understanding of legal and emotional boundaries
  • Family readiness for the demands of the surrogacy experience

For Intended Parents

  • Emotional preparedness for third-party reproduction path
  • Realistic expectations about the process and timeline
  • Ability to form healthy relationships with donors/carriers
  • Understanding of potential emotional challenges ahead
  • Strong relationship foundation (for couples)

Frequently Asked Questions

What is a fertility psychological evaluation?

A fertility psychological evaluation is a comprehensive assessment required by California law and fertility clinics for individuals participating in third-party reproduction. The evaluation includes a clinical interview, personality assessment, and detailed written report to ensure emotional and psychological readiness for egg donation, surrogacy, or using donor/carrier services.

Who needs a fertility psychological evaluation?

Evaluations are required for egg donors (first-time and repeat), gestational carriers/surrogates, and intended parents using donor eggs or gestational carriers. This includes LGBTQ+ individuals and couples, single parents by choice, and anyone participating in third-party reproduction according to ASRM guidelines.

How long does the fertility evaluation process take?

The complete process takes 2-3 weeks from scheduling to report delivery. This includes: 30-45 minutes for intake forms, 90-120 minute clinical interview (in-person or telehealth), 45-60 minute online personality assessment (PAI), and 5-7 business days for report completion and delivery to your fertility clinic.

What happens during the clinical interview?

The 90-120 minute interview covers your biopsychosocial history, mental health background, motivations for participation, understanding of medical and legal aspects, family dynamics and support systems, psychological resilience, and risk/protective factors. The atmosphere is warm and non-judgmental, designed to reduce anxiety about the evaluation process.

Is the personality test required for fertility evaluations?

Yes, the PAI (Personality Assessment Inventory) is required by ASRM guidelines. This online test measures emotional stability, personality traits, and psychological resilience. It provides objective data to complement the clinical interview and typically takes 45-60 minutes to complete.

Are fertility psychological evaluations covered by insurance?

Most fertility evaluations are self-pay and not covered by insurance. However, costs may be reimbursable by intended parents or fertility agencies depending on your arrangement. A superbill is provided for potential insurance reimbursement if your plan covers psychological assessments.

Can I do the fertility evaluation via telehealth?

Yes, telehealth evaluations are available for all California residents. The clinical interview is conducted via secure video call, and the personality assessment is completed online. Many fertility clinics accept telehealth evaluations, and the process meets all ASRM requirements.

What makes Megan qualified to conduct fertility evaluations?

As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with specialized training in fertility counseling, Megan has deep expertise in family systems, relational dynamics, and the psychological aspects of reproduction and family formation. She conducts thorough, ASRM-compliant evaluations with a compassionate approach, delivering comprehensive reports within 5-7 business days.

Why Choose Megan for Your Fertility Evaluation in Oakland?

As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with specialized training in fertility counseling and reproductive medicine, I bring unique qualifications to the evaluation process. My LMFT expertise provides deep understanding of family systems, relational dynamics, and the psychological complexities of fertility, pregnancy, and family formation.

I understand that the evaluation process can feel vulnerable and anxiety-provoking. My approach is warm, supportive, and non-judgmental—designed to help you feel comfortable while ensuring the most thorough assessment possible. I'm here to support your journey, not judge it.

LMFT Expertise

  • Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
  • Specialized fertility counseling training
  • Deep understanding of family systems
  • Expertise in reproductive psychology
  • 9+ years clinical experience

Compassionate Process

  • Warm, non-judgmental approach
  • Reduces evaluation anxiety
  • Thorough yet supportive
  • LGBTQ+ affirming practice
  • Culturally sensitive care

Thorough & Timely

  • ASRM-compliant assessments
  • Reports in 5-7 business days
  • Clear clinic communication
  • Meets all legal requirements
  • Detailed documentation

Oakland & Bay Area

  • In-person in Oakland
  • Telehealth across California
  • Flexible scheduling
  • Convenient for fertility timelines
  • Easy clinic coordination

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